If you tell yourself "this is one of my shortcomings," it will be easier to understand that, instead of focusing on something that you can't change, you could devote yourself to everything else, including your "talent".

The authors put this very nicely:
"It makes sense to devote yourself only to those things which you have the capacity to change, and refrain from wasting your time, thought and energy on these things you can never affect."Following the suggestion coming from this handbook, I decided which of the things I will no longer worry about, for I cannot change them- I made a mental list of my "shortcomings" that I should not waste my time and energy on- from now on, I will only try to improve the things worth improving, the ones that will be better for my future.
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